I think my fiance is hiding something!

Hello Everyone!

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I think my fiance is hiding something from me. I don't what, but a person can feel if his/her partner is hiding something. It might be an affair, something in the past, a friend who he/she doesn't want you to know about, something he/she is doing, something he/she has done and don't want you to find out about it.

My fiance has failed me alot. He has been giving me excuses and lies which he uncovers in-intendedly. Now, i don't seem to believe him anymore.
Sometimes, i wish i am just getting false alarms about him, but deep inside, i know he's lieing.

The past few days has been the toughest of all days till i got to a decision that i am either going to send someone after him or hire a private investigator.

I don't know if i have made the right decision or not. I need your opinion and suggestions if you have any.

Leave him. Save the money you'd spend on a PI. What difference does it make knowing or suspecting, if you can't trust him? In times like this, you have to judge people by their actions, and take action yourself to protect your feelings and interests.

I agree with that. I waisted so much time trying to figure stuff out and I regret it.
It is heartbreaking when you find out you are being lied to by person you feel so close to.
If you have a feeling that he is not being honest, instead of accusing him, find out first. Then leave the relationship. If he is making you feel insecure, he probably doesn't really love you anyway.